Dating is like chess; you either know the rules and abide by them, or you end up with one wooden piece and very little satisfaction. So, what can one do? Learn to play the game.
This isn’t a self-help book. I am not a psychologist, or a sex therapist, but there are a great deal of lessons I have learned the hard way, and would like to share.
Playing outside the rules can be tempting, but learning how to play by them is an art, and one that is worth learning. And trust me, it has a much better pay off.
Now, get out your pen and paper and start taking notes!

I think I’ll take notes on my netbook so I can be on Skype at the same time. “Multitasking” FTW!
While I am not dating, looks like a lot of great real life information.
Great insights! Im following your posts through my reader. Thank you for stopping by my post as well.
Thanks! (:
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You have some fun ideas, and I love the images on your posts!
Thanks! (:
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I see some new ideas coming up from here
Not to throw it in anybody’s face, but I am so glad I am married and not dating haha. Never was good at it and never really got into it. Dating my husband is quite lovely though and worth all the not dating in the world. Best wishes to the others on their dating quests. xoxo
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Interesting Idea for a blog! I will be reading your rules just for fun to compare with my experiences and techniques.
you have a fun blog! quite more entertaining and to-the-point that most advice-blogs i’ve seen.
And, I don’t give compliments that easily, believe me. congrats!
Thank you very much!
Fascinating!
Thanks for stopping by my blog. I’ll take a whirl around yours, now, on a cold, lazy Sunday.
thanks for visiting my blog. (Quite an idea for a blog ( Laughing ) I shall use this unceasingly as I meddle in the dating lives of my two 20 something daughters….
Interesting concept, good luck with your blog and your book, I am not dating but it looks like you have compiled a lot of information on different aspects of real life social networking. Thanks for the visit to my blog, I wish you well!
Delightful read. Lots of insight, humour, advice to the wise (and the less wise.) You make one (me) think back over time and relationships, exercise the mind, and practice happy hindsight. Perfect place to be amused, informed, brought up to date (oops, update). I’ve bookmarked you so to return. One of my favorites. Thanks.
very interesting blog! thanks for visiting us!
Fun blog, lots of smart stuff. Thanks for dropping by mine!
I’ll be sending the link to this site to a few friends who are dating, keep up the great posts.
Thanks for the like! I’m enjoying your site, although I’ve never had to deal with dating at all, haha.
I have nominated your blog for the Reader Appreciation Award; thank you for your wonderful posts.
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We just wanted to say, you have ‘One Lovely Blog’
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And where do you get those photos?!
Thanks for the like – interesting idea for a blog you have here
Thanks for stopping by carefreecomposition.com. I appreciate the blog like!
Thanks for coming by today – I haven’t dated in quite some time (married 28 yrs now) but if I were…I’d stop by your place before making a single move! Your blog is a lot of fun to read, single or otherwise.
We hope to see you soon,
Wendy
Thanks for stopping by and enjoying a post!
This is great! I actually collect old books on etiquette, sex, and how to please your man. Have you ever seen the advice in those books?? Yours is much more practical!
Thank you for liking my blog at http://www.artteachtravel.com . Your blog looks so fantastic! I have briefly scanned it and love it. I will be reading…:)
Hi there -
I saw that you visited our site recently, and I wanted to return the favor and see what you’re all about. I love your site – it’s so unique and I’m sure it’s definitely a BIG help to many of your readers. I remember going through a break up a few years back and desperately searching for the “rules” regarding communication with the ex and how to jump back into the dating game…I wish I’d had this blog for reference back then! Please let us know if you end up trying out our Tiramisu Italiano recipe; we’d love feedback.
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Interesting blog. Thanks for coming by to visit my site. I enjoyed your post.
Very interesting. Thanks for stopping by my blog. Let’s visit each other again soon!
Hello there. I have a post that I would like to offer you for this blog. Could you send me your email address so I can send you the pitch? My email is tracey@traceychandler.com
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This is a very big book, and apparently getting bigger! Great idea.
Thanks for stopping by my blog and liking my post.
Thanks for the like on my blog post! I actually have a lot of dating/romance ideas, so you should follow me on Twitter – @holliegraceanne. Happy blogging!
Awesome! Fun readings here! Thanks for stopping in to like my photography! Great to meet you-K
This a great idea for a blog! I look forward to reading more.
Thanks for liking my post! (: Best, Michelle.
Interesting blog you have here, I look forward to reading more. In the meantime – thanks for stopping by and liking my post ‘Word a Week Challenge – Colour’
Your support is appreciated!
interesting idea.. i am gonna follow to see how it ends
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